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Tagged: 5 things…

December 23, 2008 · 6 Comments

bismillah2

I’ve just discovered I’ve been tagged by American Muslima Writer – another opportunity to take the easy option to get back into blogging! :D

Sooooooo…….

5  Things I was doing 10 years ago

  1. Enjoying being a mum to 2 little girls.
  2. Changing nappies, lol, nothing has changed!
  3. Living in the UK.
  4. Driving myself and my girls wherever we needed to be (unlike here in KSA).
  5. Had been married 5 years.

5  Snacks I Like

  1. Chocolate
  2. Asparagus straight from the jar
  3. Cheese on toast (preferably camembert/brie)
  4.  Apricots
  5. Dark chocolate coated digestives

5  things I would do if I was a (multi-)millionaire

  1. Give.
  2. Give.
  3. Give.
  4. Give.
  5. Buy a house big enough for me and my growing family.

5  places I have lived ( for various lengths of times)

  1. Buckinghamshire, UK
  2. Bristol, UK
  3. Dyfed, Wales, UK
  4. Nevers, France
  5. Riyadh, Saudi Arabia

5  Jobs I have had

  1. Quick Hamburger Restaurant
  2. Burger King
  3. Tesco supermarket
  4. McDonald’s
  5. Office junior
5 people I Tag
Erm… not sure how long this tag has been going; probably everyone has been tagged already!
  1. Rainbow
  2. Seeking Taqwa
  3. Itto
  4. Um Almujahid
  5. ~W~

Categories: Tagged

Tag: When in the masjid

October 8, 2008 · 14 Comments

Ammena came up with this tag and is asking about the mosque or prayer area and is asking for 3 hadith to be posted on this subject. 

She says,

Having spent a considerable amount of time at the masjid this month, masha’allah, reciting with my sisters and praying with my community I have realised a few things about people and how they pray [...] I got thinking yesterday, yes my mind does tend to wander!! about a blog post.. ‘if I could post ahadith around this masjid, what would they be?’ .. just 3… and im going to make it into a tag post [...] 

Sooooo, here goes…

The immediate things that I notice when I go to any masjid or prayer room (musalla) in this country are shoes. Yes shoes! Shoe racks or shelves are always provided, I have never been to a masjid where they are not provided yet there is always a pile of shoes in the immediate entrance into the praying room for everyone to trip over. It’s an even bigger problem for mothers who wish to take the stroller with baby in, into the prayer room (I am referring to prayer rooms that have a corridor along the side where the stroller can sit and not dirty the carpets). Why can people not remove their shoes and place them on the shelf? I’m sure it would be far easier to find their shoes after prayer if they did this as the shoes get kicked around by people trying to step over them or wade through them. So, this reminds me of the hadith of ‘removing the harm’ from the public right of way: 

It is narrated on the authority of Abu Huraira that the Messenger of Allah (may peace and blessings be upon him) said: Faith has over seventy branches or over sixty branches, the most excellent of which is the declaration that there is no god but Allah, and the humblest of which is the, removal of what is injurious from the path: and modesty is the branch of faith.

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In Muslim, it is reported on the authority of  `Aishah  (May Allah be pleased with her) that Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, “Everyone of the children of Adam has been created with three hundred and sixty joints; so he who declares the Glory of Allah, praises Allah, declares Allah to be One, glorifies Allah, and seeks forgiveness from Allah, and removes stone, or thorn, or bone from people’s path, and enjoins good and forbids evil, to the number of those three hundred and sixty, will walk that day having rescued himself from Hell”.

The next thing I have noticed after my Jumu’ah prayer experience last week is the lateness of those coming to pray Jumu’ah prayer. As you know, I arrived at the mosque and found the ladies entrance locked so I had to resort to sitting outside the mosque for the duration of the prayer and khutbah whilst I waited for my husband. In that half hour I observed the men coming for prayer. We arrived just as the imam was arriving so it was only minutes before he began his khutbah and the carpark, even at that time, was almost empty. As I sat on the step to the ladies entrance I saw the carpark slowly filling and men walking from nearby villas, 5 minutes walk away. Many men were arriving towards the end of the khutbah and there seemed to be a rush as the iqama for the actual salah was called. Do they not know about the reward for arriving early in the mosque on a Friday? Please read:

Bukhari, Volume 2, Book 13, Number 51:

Narrated Abu Huraira:

The Prophet said, “When it is a Friday, the angels stand at the gate of the mosque and keep on writing the names of the persons coming to the mosque in succession according to their arrivals. The example of the one who enters the mosque in the earliest hour is that of one offering a camel (in sacrifice). The one coming next is like one offering a cow and then a ram and then a chicken and then an egg respectively. When the Imam comes out (for Jumua prayer) they (i.e. angels) fold their papers and listen to the Khutba.”

Lastly, I was at the Eid prayer just over a week ago and had the pleasure of praying in congregation and then sitting for the khutbah and joining in the du’a that the imam made in the second part of his khutbah. I was most disappointed to hear the two ladies next to me talking virtually non-stop throughout the khutbah and even the du’a and there were many other ladies in the room also chatting instead listening and benefitting not only from the words of the imam but from the reward of listening:

Bukhari, Volume 2, Book 13, Number 56:

Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah’s Apostle (p.b.u.h) said,

“When the Imam is delivering the Khutba, and you ask your companion to keep quiet and listen, then no doubt you have done an evil act.”

I tag, in no particular order: OmLujain, Umalmujahid, UmmK, Redwan,  Nabbu,  UmmHibaat (again… just to heap the pressure on a bit more ;)UmmAdam and Brandy.

Rules as follows:

  • Link back to the person who tagged you.
  • List 3 hadith you’d like to pin up in your masjid and why.
  • Tag some of your fellow bloggers by linking to them in your post and don’t forget to post a comment on their blog to let them know they’ve been tagged.

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L_Oman’s ‘GAME OF TAG’!

September 15, 2008 · 21 Comments

 L_Oman is asking the following question on her blog: “Am I the only blogger out there that sometimes thinks of other bloggers?” She’s also asking if it is even healthy to wonder about our fellow bloggers… in answer to that, probably not but nevertheless I do!

So she came up with a new meme to keep us occupied and it is as follows:

I’m gonna tag all you guys and start up my own little game of tag. Post at least five blogs that you read and tell us what you wonder about with them! And that goes for everyone else not listed too

I wonder when Ammena is going to get on and tell her mum everything that needs to be said (about Islam, being engaged…)

I wonder why Itto’s comments on my blog always end up in spam and spam doesn’t find it’s way to spam. :x I also wonder how it is living in such a beautiful place as the Moroccan Atlas and if she ever misses Germany.

I wonder how our Kate manages to do such a fab job with her family masha’Allah Tabaarak Allah ~ homeschooling her brood, doing fab arty projects with the kids, knitting, crocheting and stitching things for the family and cooking yummy things! I also wonder when the time will be right for her hijra and pray that Allah allows it to be soon.

Like L_Oman, I also think of AlAjnabiya often. I too wonder about her safety and how an American Muslimah managed to adapt to life in the West Bank and am totally in awe of her.

I wonder where Farhana gets all her inspiration, imagination, time and ‘oomph’ for all the amazing fundraising projects she has on her blog. Kudos to you sister!

Categories: Tagged · just for fun
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Tagged #2 ‘Let’s Hope’

May 3, 2008 · 5 Comments

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم


LET’S HOPE!

Tagged by: American Muslima Writer

Rules:

1. ON your blog, post the Rules & 10 things you have HOPE for in your life.
2. LINK Tag 10 people (we want hope to spread people!) and LINK the person who tagged you.
3. Comment/Notify the 10 People they’ve been tagged.

10 Things I HOPE for in my life:

1. I hope to avoid the punishment of the grave and reach Jannah

2. I hope to be able to bring up my children worshipping and loving Allah and being contented in their deen

3. I hope to have a family that always maintains strong ties wherever we may be on this earth

4. I hope to be able to settle down eventually in some nice quiet rural location, whether in the UK, Algeria or elsewhere and be able to concentrate on my deen

5. I hope to be able to perform Hajj and I hope for that to be a life-changing experience for the better that never leaves me

6. I hope to be able to become more eloquent and able to explain myself so I can make better, more effective dawa to my family

7. I hope to learn more Qur’an, become more fluent in my reading of Qur’an and to be able to more fully implement what I read into my and my family’s life

8. I hope to see the day where Muslims are able to stand up for themselves more effectively and unashamedly and make their voices heard

9. I hope to be able to behave in such a way as to be a good example of Islam to others: my children and strangers alike

10. I hope always to grow in my faith and improve myself

I’ll tag 5 people:

Aliyah Let’s Hope

Ammena Let’s Hope

Digital Niqabi Let’s Hope

Sonya Let’s Hope

Umm Yehiya Let’s Hope

Update June 3rd: Just wanted to say thank you to everyone who I tagged for obliging and making a list also! Follow the ‘Let’s Hope’ link next to the names above to see the list on the other blogs.

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Tagged: Six Word Memoir

April 9, 2008 · 2 Comments

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

Thanks for the tag American Muslima Writer! It was a hard one!

The Rules:
1. Write your own six word memoir
2. Post it on your blog and include a visual illustration if you’d like
3. Link to the person that tagged you in your post
4. Tag six more blogs with links
5. And don’t forget to leave a comment on the tagged blogs with an invitation to play!

Perpetually Run Ragged By Crazy Kids!

I tag:

Al Ajnabiya

Amina

Ammena

Sonya

Umm Hibaat

Ummihabibati (aka Rainbow in the Grey Sky)

Categories: Children · Tagged · just for fun